Conversations [...]

m: whoa dude, what the hell happened to you?
h: yeah i know, i look like crap !

m: ah its not that bad, don't be too hard on yourself.
h: hehe, this sucks, but also strangely liberating

m: yeah, that can happen
h: i know. its time to dig and uproot

m: yup, its pretty deep in
h: this is gotta be one of them paradigm shifts

m: you'll get there slowly, dont be too caught up on one thing
h: haha, you're right, thats what got me here in the first place !

m: phew, i cant tell you how happy i am
h: i'm not there yet, give me some time, i'll be there

m: yup, all in good time my friend
h: all in good time.